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Useful ​Resources

We have found these to be immensely helpful for our own personal growth, and to aid in our dating and sex lives:


Websites : Sex and Psychology blog by Dr. at The Kinsey Institute : a kink/fetish questionnaire to help you spice things up with your partner : a comprehensive sex resource site with list of various sex terminology, articles, blog posts, Q&A, webinars, & illustrated sex positions : subscription service w/ insights and techniques that enhance pleasure for women


Come As You Are, Emily Nagoski

She Comes First, Ian Kerner

Sex at Dawn, Cacilda Jetha & Christopher Ryan

The Ethical Slut, Janet W. Hardy

Tell Me What You Want, Justin J. Lehmiller

Existential Kink, Carolyn Elliott

Pussy: A Reclamation, Regena Thomashauer

Sex: A Man's Guide, Stefan Bechtel

Faking It, Lux Alptraum

Male Pelvic Fitness, Andrew L Siegel MD

The Guide to Great Sex, Michael Karp

Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining an Open Relationship, Tristan Taormino

Attached, Amir Levine

Daring Greatly, Brene Brown

Heart Talk, Cleo Wade

Untamed, Glennon Doyle

For the Love of Men: From Toxic to a More Mindful Masculinity, Liz Plank

Better Boys Better Men, Andrew Reiner

Women Who Run With Wolves, Clarissa Pinkola Estés

You Are a Badass, Jen Sincero

Breakup Bootcamp, Amy Chan

Podcasts & Web Series

Luvbites by Dr. Tara : Sex tips and fun chat with a professor of sexual communication

Shan Boody : Youtube channel about Sex and Dating with Shan Boodram

Sex with Emily : Sex & Relationship Podcast w/ Sexpert Emily Morse : Relationship Therapist Esther Perel gives expert advice


Lover : sex therapy app provides personalized programs w/ exercises, techniques, and advice through video & audio to help you become a better lover

iPlaySafe : an app-based STI testing service that allows you to share results w/ partners​ and have access to medical professionals and pharmacists in case of a positive test result

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