Useful Resources
We have found these to be immensely helpful for our own personal growth, and to aid in our dating and sex lives:
Websites
Lehmiller.com : Sex and Psychology blog by Dr. at The Kinsey Institute
Sexionaire.com : a kink/fetish questionnaire to help you spice things up with your partner
Kinkly.com : a comprehensive sex resource site with list of various sex terminology, articles, blog posts, Q&A, webinars, & illustrated sex positions
OMGYes.com : subscription service w/ insights and techniques that enhance pleasure for women
Books
Come As You Are, Emily Nagoski
She Comes First, Ian Kerner
Sex at Dawn, Cacilda Jetha & Christopher Ryan
The Ethical Slut, Janet W. Hardy
Tell Me What You Want, Justin J. Lehmiller
Existential Kink, Carolyn Elliott
Pussy: A Reclamation, Regena Thomashauer
Sex: A Man's Guide, Stefan Bechtel
Faking It, Lux Alptraum
Male Pelvic Fitness, Andrew L Siegel MD
The Guide to Great Sex, Michael Karp
Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining an Open Relationship, Tristan Taormino
Attached, Amir Levine
Daring Greatly, Brene Brown
Heart Talk, Cleo Wade
Untamed, Glennon Doyle
For the Love of Men: From Toxic to a More Mindful Masculinity, Liz Plank
Better Boys Better Men, Andrew Reiner
Women Who Run With Wolves, Clarissa Pinkola Estés
You Are a Badass, Jen Sincero
Breakup Bootcamp, Amy Chan
Podcasts & Web Series
Luvbites by Dr. Tara : Sex tips and fun chat with a professor of sexual communication
Shan Boody : Youtube channel about Sex and Dating with Shan Boodram
Sex with Emily : Sex & Relationship Podcast w/ Sexpert Emily Morse
YouTube.com/c/EstherPerel : Relationship Therapist Esther Perel gives expert advice
Apps
Lover : sex therapy app provides personalized programs w/ exercises, techniques, and advice through video & audio to help you become a better lover
iPlaySafe : an app-based STI testing service that allows you to share results w/ partners and have access to medical professionals and pharmacists in case of a positive test result
